October / November 2019 - Vol.106
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Our Agendas Crucify the Life of God in Us
by Sam Williamson

Ten years ago I met a mother in anguish because her smart, capable son was living in an abandoned house, playing reggae music on the streets, and panhandling when the busking money fell short. He bathed irregularly and communicated inconsistently.

After he graduated from high school, his mom enrolled him at Stanford while he took the summer off to hitchhike around America. He rarely called, so when it came time to register for fall classes, she chose them for him.

After three weeks, her son dropped out of Stanford and began busking and house-squatting.

I met his mother a couple of years after he began his street life, and his mother was desperate. She begged me for ideas. I suggested she call him and ask how he is doing. She plotted, “Oh, so then I can bring him home and re-enroll him in classes.”

“No, just to engage with him on a personal level. No pressure for anything. No agenda!

“Oh yes, of course, that makes sense, so he’ll come home and enroll himself in school!”

 “No, just ask him questions like, ‘What do you like about reggae music?’ and ‘What’s it like to live in an abandoned house?’”

“So I can figure out what’s wrong with him and fix it?”

“No, talk with him simply so you can get to know who he is as a person; just for himself.”

She snapped, “What good will that do?”

A Season of Fruitlessness

I feel as though I’m in an unproductive season: the church I serve is struggling, a ministry I help is suffering, and my writing feels like the discordant music of an un-tuned orchestra, playing for an untrained conductor, in an echo-chamber.

Even my golf game (which this summer was the best it’s ever been) recently began to look like a six-year-old playing field hockey with a mop handle. It’s objectively horrible. Witnesses laugh.

In my seeming unfruitfulness of life, I keep asking God questions: “Why this? Why not? Why me? What should I do? What should I stop doing? What’s a good plan?”

My prayers are petitioned with uncommonly attentive devotion.

That Mother’s Doppelganger

My bizarre conversation with that distraught mother happened Friday night, April 17th, 2009. It occurred exactly as described. I even wrote it down immediately afterward because this impersonal mother seemed so mercenary with her agenda. And then I forgot about it.

Until yesterday.

Yesterday morning, I overheard someone quote Psalm 1. It promises that the person who delights in God’s word, and meditates on it day and night, will “prosper in all that he does.”

I thought, “Oh, if I just study Scripture more, then people will donate to that good ministry.”

An hour later I read, “Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit” (John 15:5b). I thought, “Oh, I get it; if I seek God for himself, then church attendance will increase.”

And something in my spirit felt God sigh.

Just before dinner, a friend emailed me a quote from Oswald Chambers: “The lasting value of our public service for God is measured by the depth of our intimacy with Him.” I sensed God say, “Just spend time with me, no hidden agenda, nothing mercenary; just to know me better.” And the tiniest of thoughts raced through my head:

“What good will that do?”


P. S. Jesus came to earth to bring us back into a relationship with God; so we can grow in intimacy with him; so we can hear his voice. And every relationship is built on conversation. (Husbands: just ask your wives!).

To grow in that divine dialogue, please read, Hearing God in Conversation.

article © Copyright 2019, Beliefs of the Heart, Ltd. All rights reserved. Used with permission.

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Sam Williamson has published numerous articles and has written two books. He has a blog site, www.beliefsoftheheart.com, and can be reached at Sam@BeliefsoftheHeart.com. 

Hearing God in Conversation: How to Recognize His Voice Everywhere, by Samuel C. Williamson, published by Kregel Publications, 2016, available from Amazon                              

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